How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 24.06.2025 04:29
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
What I need from you?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Does not procrastinate.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
That's it for today.
Procrastinates a lot.
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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Is it okay for my husband to help other ladies without telling me?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
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Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Ask yourself:
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Making more friends is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.